How do I write a message?

Click the 'Send me a message' link on a member's profile page or click the 'Send me a message' link on the search results page.

How can I read messages?

When you get a new message, you will get a notification on your home page. Click on the alert or go directly to the 'Love Notes' tab to read them and reply. Messages are grouped by user. If you exchange several messages with one person, you will be able to view the entire exchange (including your sent messages) in one place.

What is the blacklist?

The blacklist allows you to block contact from members you don't want to hear from. The option to 'Blacklist' is listed next to each message on the 'Love Notes' page. Simply click the link and the member will be prevented from contacting you. You can remove members from your blacklist at any time by clicking the 'Blacklist' link at the top of the 'Love Notes' page.